Know Your Business

I just started a new contract with another group of owners who think that they know how to run a nightclub.
This means that I have too take up a lot of time re-working their concept, staff, advertising and philosophy.

I go out ... A LOT.
But I don't go out to have fun so much as I'm always on the look out for new talent.
The bartender who can attract women, doesn't steal, works hard and provides good service,
The cocktail waitress who can work a crowd, get orders out quickly and correctly while providing good service,
The door guy who can end a problem before it starts, who shows up on time and can provide professional service to sometimes angry customers,
The DJ who plays what the crowd wants to hear not just what he/she wants to hear...
I'm always looking.

Club owners always assume that they are in the wrong business.
"Why should people come here?", I always ask first.
"We have a nice decor", some say.
"But if people want to look at art they'll go to a museum or gallery", I reply.
"We have cheap drinks. We make our money on people buying drinks.", is also a common answer.
"If people just want a drink it's cheaper for them to just buy a bottle and sit at home and get drunk.", I tell them.
"A strong and good one-hitta'-quitta' $8 drink will bring more return business than will a weak $4 drink, It's not the actual cost but the perceived value that matters most.", I continue.
"We have a good DJ.", some say.
"If people just want to hear music they can just watch YouTube to listen to their favorites in the order they prefer... for free.", I say.
"Look, a good DJ is like a good actor - you don't notice it. But a bad DJ is like a bad actor - each can make the experience unbearable.", I continue.

So, people don't go to clubs for the music, for the decor, or for the drinks.
What does get people to come back and bring more people?
Service.
People like to feel as though they are special and that cover charge and the cost of each drink affords them that privilege for the three to five hours one spends in a night club.
The best employees know how to make this happen.
The best employees can create an addictive environment - an environment which allows small people to be the big shot.
Good nightclub workers are good hosts.
They may be the best at what they do but the patron should still be made to feel as though he/she is the most important person in the building.
The best workers are able to put aside their egos in order to do the job.

People get addicted to the status associated with being the big man/big woman at the club and they will pay to get that high even if they have to spend their rent money to do it.
This is where VIP cards and free drinks come in.
The people who get these perks boast of them and come back in order to do so - and those who don't enjoy these perks come back to work their way up to becoming a member of the 'in group'.

In all honesty - the situation is laughable.
Who cares about such things if ones kids can't get his needs met?
But like those addicted to narcotics, the call of a rented status is just too strong and they will feel as though they missed something if they fail to come back on a good night.
They will look for the same high they got when they first felt special.
I still don't enjoy working at nightclubs but the pay and bonuses are just too good to pass up.
I can't wait for the days when I will once again be able to go out without having to be on the lookout for the perfect employee for the perfect place.
I can't wait until going out fails to be work.

Germans

 Well... They do make great cars.

While watching George Kranz's Din Daa Daa video on YouTube, "Damn, This video sucks", is what I thought.
George Kranz, Kraftwerk, Nena, Falco (Okay, he's Austrian but after watching the Van Trapp family and their dealings with the Nazis in The Sound of Music - it's close enough.) all had nice pop songs but their videos could use a director.
Din Daa Daa? Yeah you know, that song from Ginuine's None of Your Business interlude, from the X-Box Jump-In commercial, from the Jabbawakees performance on ABDC - you know...
And don't get me started on Kraftwork providing the beat for Afrika Bambaataa tunes.
Germans had some good songs - just skip the videos.

Fame (I'm Not Mad)

 Since The New Girl has to stay in Ohio to take care of her mother during her treatment - it's just best that we take a break.
(There is no benefit to settling for visits every two weeks or so for the next who-knows-how-many years.)
I'm now in the process of interviewing prospective New-New Girls.
One prospect commented that I always look serious.
But I never noticed this, it's just that I always have a lot on my mind.
She (as well as I) cannot understand how I can still manage to be popular even though I'm not necessarily 'nice'.
When she asked people about me, "Everyone loves John", is what she says people say.
"How are you so popular?", she asked.

But one thing I never understood or desired was popularity - and as far as "Fame", oh hell no.
Yeah... I can easily come across as being popular in most situations - but I just don't know 'Why?".
And the thing is, I'm never really popular - I just seem as though I am.
(Just like I'm not realy good-looking - I just look like I am.)

 Since I was a kid I've always favored the anonymous guy who swoops in, solves the problem and then leaves.
My first mental image of someone like this was the Silver Surfer.
When the surfer rebelled against his creator - I could relate.
When the Surfer was then deemed to be reprobate - I could also relate.
But the Surfer still did that which he believed was right.
While acting as the herald to the destroyer, the Surfer was seen as a 'Bad Guy' but the Surfer still strove to do good.

 Later in life, the Biblical and mythical Magi became my mentors.
Their spirituality and knowledge of the sciences allowed them to move freely (to an extent) where others feared to go.
Their abilities were so misunderstood that they were thought to be greater than the common man.
(Which is odd because 'humilty' is a trait often associated with the Magi.)
In the Biblical context, the Magi were seen as the 'Good Guys'.

 Still later in life, the Seraphim played a part in modeling my behaviors.
Neither good nor bad - A Seraph just did that which needed to be done.

But then The Matrix movies just solidified this model.
I just liked Seraph's cool and deliberate fighting style.
He was never excited or angry - he was just doing his job.
(The part was initially offered to Michelle Yeoh and then to Jet Li. Either could have played the part well as each also has an aggressive yet elegant and controlled style of fighting.)
The 'Kung Fu' angle stuck home because it refers to a skill acquired through long and hard work.
Most people think of being prosperous as living a life of relaxation and ease - but this is not the case.
Biblical stories tell of heaven being filled with people having specific 'jobs', of the rich man seeing that his barns were full and deciding to relax only die soon after and/or telling of future heroes being discovered while doing their daily chores.

Popularity, fame, status...?
You can have them - I've got other things to worry about.

The Things One Learns

We weren't bad kids - we were just kids.
But one thing we learned was how to break into those little security bars people put on their windows and doors.
As one of my cousins locked herself out of her house - this skill could be put to good use.
The trick is for a kid to hug two bars until they are slightly bent.
The next step is to grab one of the bent bars with both hands and begin to wiggle it until friction causes the weld to heat and then break,
If one repeats this, he is able to make a large enough hole for him to climb through.
After about half an hour, my cousin's son could crawl through the open window and unlock the front door.
I guess she doesn't feel as safe in her home now that she knows that even a kid can break through those security bars and gain access to her home in no time at all.

Men Fashion: Trends And Tips For 2011

In the fashion world, things on the fairer sex side change much faster than things on our side. Even with the slower rate of change, it is hard to keep up with things.

Come on, we are men and this is fashion we are talking about. Fashion gurus claim that men fashion changes every six month, same period some men, and a large percentage, take to change their bed sheets. Now do the math.

This article however sums up 2011's trends and fashion tips in efforts to keep you upbeat. Floral patterns in an emerging trend in men's fashion. And the trend is hot as these patterns are all over from catwalks to paisley shirts, larger flowery options to beach shorts. It is clear that designers have bitten into this cake and are not relenting in their endeavor to change how men perceive fashion. Don't get this confused with the feminine floral patterns that have adorned the catwalks since time immemorial.

Then there is the men's blazer, as hot as hot gets, which is sweeping men of their feet. The blazer comes coated in a variety of versatile colors. It wears block colors ranging from green to blue and grey to pale mauve. These different subtle colors allow you to wear your blazer to a variety of events, whether formal or social. Blazers are trending in the fashion world for yet another reason; they are superbly tailored to look attractive on any man.

Trending on similar grounds are the leather jackets that have been making appearances on the catwalks. The leather Bomber jacket is one such beauty. It gives the wearer a great sporty look that every man should crave for. 

When you are out for sporting activities, the bomber jacket is a superb garment for keeping out the cold. There is a lot of pocket space as well. The jacket fits such casual settings like a sock does the foot. To achieve a hip look, wear the jacket unzipped with a shirt underneath.

Many men, you included, will be quick to associate crop tops with women. But these tops are a common thing on 2011 men catwalks. Now that you know better, you may drop the notion as well. They are trending, and trending hot. Men crop tops are not tiny thingies as those with women. These look like loose vests but shorter than normal. If you own a six pack, crop tops will be great for you. You will get these tops in black and white.

Sheer clothes and lace are quickly curving a niche in 2011 men's fashion. They are key trends on the men's catwalks. Many men, this time I included, would associate these clothes with women. But if worn with the right clothes and in the right fashion, they look amazing on men as well. 

On summer vacations, sheer shirts are very popular. If you are tanned, sheer shirts are great for showing off. They are also great for using as layering. There you have it, 2011 men fashion trends.  Hendrik Pohl

All I wanted was to be wanted

My mood is unstable, I feel impulsive in ways I haven't done in months, almost constant derealisation, awful nights full of panic and things in the walls and ceiling, my mouth and throat so dry that everytime I lie down I physically start to choke.

I don't know what to do. I have no-one. I'm coming to the end of DBT. The pychiatrist is less than useless and I've been waiting for weeks for a call or appointment from my CPN. I can see myself slipping off the radar and losing it...

I am terrified that I am functioning too well on the outside that no-one is going to believe what's going on inside.

The New Eggie – June Version

Hi guys! How are you lately? Do you miss me? =)

 

Look like it has been a long time since my last update. I wonder are you still keeping up with my update? No matter what, I am going to start this blogging activity once again, continue whatever I’ve left behind. This was once a home for me and it is going to be home again from now onwards.

 

I guess 1st June 2011 is a good time to say bye-bye to past and say hello to new start for the next 7 months of the year – just like our electrical tariff which increase with from RM10.70/mmBTU to RM13.70/mmBTU. Well you see, people around us always expect us to improve from time to time and we can clearly see this value in our government. They are improving too. yay!

 

Back to curryegg’s story, if you notice this blog post title you will soon scroll down to her latest hairstyle of the month. It is a good indication for a new start, right?

 

So yes, the new June version of eggie is about to be revealed

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What do you think? Do you like it? Well, I do… something new and fresh i would say. XoXo <3

sada very hot thigh show from takkari movie

Architectural Inspiration: Crazy Colors

First things first, darlings! The winner of CC's Ayana Designs Necklace Giveaway is the lovely Jess ~ congrats!

Architectural inspiration via marieclairemaison.com.

Lela Rose pleated cotton-twill dress; this and next at net-a-porter.com.

Miu Miu suede platform pumps.

Madewell Tickertape Sky Print Scarf; this and next at shopbop.com.

Kenneth Jay Lane red twine bangle.

Darlings, what do you think of this colorful space and the look it inspired?
xoxox,
CC

In-n-Out

Maybe our food tastes too good.
Maybe it's too easy to consume.
Maybe we should have listened to our grandmothers when they told us to chew each bite twenty times before swallowing.

When we fail to properly chew our food we don't allow the enzymes found in our saliva to break down the starches, fats and proteins we consume. Our bodies know that they need these nutrients and if it takes three times the food to get the required nourishment, the brain may be telling the body to continue to consume until the required nutrient level is met.
Sure, the ratio of calories acquired to those burned has a lot to do with weight gain - but maybe the way we eat (or 'chew') our food is just as important.

Ecclesiates 1:2

40 Billionaires have pledged to give away half their wealth. I guess only a few understand the concept of "winning".

Are We 'There' Yet?

Similar to the story lines in video games or to the books of Homer or from the Bible - the Hero must defeat sub-bosses before he meets the penultimate boss.

The only tough people are those who've overcome tough situations - I've yet to meet a tough person who was raised being pampered.

One problem is that as ones abilities improve, so does his level of competition.

Just when he gains newer and better abilities and weapons and he overcomes one seemingly impossible task or opponent,  he is then thrust into a new arena with even fiercer opponents.

Many times, the choices and sacrifices one makes early in the game will be either a blessing or a curse.

Shortcuts taken will limit ones level of preparedness and hinder ones ability to advance further in the game.

Time and effort spent honing ones skills early in the game (even though there is no readily apparent reason as to 'why' this may be of benefit) often comes to ones rescue when all hope is lost.

(How many times have you been saved by knowing, doing or having access to something you forgot that you even knew about?)

The ultimate boss or adversary is often oneself, or ones ego.

Who has sought to do good only to be destroyed by his own greed, desires or vanity?

Who can put aside his ego and do what needs to be done in order to accomplish his ultimate goal?

Who can leave his life's work (and the rewards thereof) to the betterment of others?

Who can gain all only to give it all away?

(The man who can do all this is the only one who actually ever wins the game.)

Keep It Moving

Let's say that something is said to be impossible but highly desirable.
Now let's say that we have one million people looking at the same problem. (1,000,000)
Ninety percent of these will determine that gaining a desirable outcome is impossible and will not even look at the problem. (100,000)
Ninety percent of these will look at the problem and determine that it is just not worth the time, resources and effort. (10,000)
Ninety percent of these will grow weary and give up. (1,000)
Ninety percent of these will not be prepared to deal the problem. (100)
Ninety percent of these will get close to solving the problem and settle for just being close. (10)
Ninety percent of these will become distracted by the rewards gained by just getting close and will turn their attention towards status and popularity. (1).

It is often said that one has to be one in a million to succeed.
But the trick is to focus on the goal and everyone else will simply fall away leaving only yourself.
Being the 'one in a million' is not that hard - just as long as you keep working towards your intended goal.
(And if you fail? Who hasn't? If you have never failed you probably aren't trying hard enough to be great. Just try again. You're probably only competing against yourself anyway.)

Keep holding on

I don't know what to do
I'm a mess
I went to London with some friends a radio gig
I was waiting for them and this guy was lurking
I assumed it was just my hypersensitivty
So I ignored it
And then ater fifteen minutes he came over and started asking me if I had a boyfriend and all that hit trying to get me alone
I tried to get safe
Go to Starbucks
The met my friends
Forgot about it
And now I'm on my own again I can't stop crying and shaking
Flashbacks and seeing shit and panic
I have so much planned for the summer
So much to look forward to
But when it's quiet the noise in my head is just too much
I never feel safe from people
I miss self-harming
Drinking
Pills
I just don't know how to cope
How to keep it together
I feel completely isolated after seeing that psych
Like I'm completely worthless of help
Like my problems are nothing
I am so despeately fighting to be healthy
But it's not enough
Giving in would be such a release...

Topshop Wish List

Hello my amazing followers and readers,

wowie 95 followers. NEARLY 100, i remember the ddays when i was stuck on 41 and 27 but now my blog is becoming..................bigger. And thank you so much for it! It means so much, it practically brings a tear to my eye, i love you all so much.....

Now let's get our beauty ooooooooon. I've been lookin at the topshop website and love a few things, so i shall show them here:

Blue Stripe Seersucker Ruffle Bikini - £28.50 

I think this bikini is really cute, i like the stripes and the ruffles and the horizontal stripes will take the eyes of your body flaws or uncertainties and focus on the ruffle detailing. perfect

Tan 3/4 Sleeve Blouse - £75

odd choice for me but i think it could look really cute with black leggings and black booties. I can even imagine myself wearing it with black leggings, black boots/booties, hair up in a messy pony, slightly bright lipstick, depending on the event either smokey makeup or just my collection 2000 eyeliner and mascara! I love it.

White Broderie Anglaise Zip Front Suntop - £23

I think this is adorable, maybe even with the next skirt. It is adorable, i don't really know how to wear it though? Blue skinny jeans and beige boots. Now i have an idea, my blue A&F jeggings, imaginary cowboy or just beige boots, hair down with curls or even with another messy pony, peachy coral to even pink lipstick with lined eyes (upper lashes) and thick lashes.

 Multi Animal Print Bodycon - £25

I love (!!!) Animal Print just in general and as a skirt i think it is really cute. Maybe with a white or cream vintagey shirt (like the last top) and stilettos if your a heely person with a bright clutch. 

Rose Bud Tilly Top - £28

With high waisted shorts, some bright shoes, neautral makeup i can see myself wearing this! It is totally cute with the floral trend, cropped trend, white trend. If you can find a fault with this write it below, accept i can see one mini-flaw, is it going to be c-through in person?

Shirred Frill Blouse - £32

Vintage, ruffled, long, sheer. AMAZING. i love LOVE LOVE THIS TOP. 

Do you have any FABULOUS finds from topshop recently? 

Don't forget to enter my Black N White Giveaway..

LOVE YOU ALL:

TTYL

WMRDX

More Bodacious Bikinis

Today it’s sassy solid bikinis, darlings! Chic and simple, these solid-colored suits keep the focus on your fabulous figure!
Whether you choose a bandeau or a stringkini, you will be the most beautiful babe on the beach!
All bikinis at victoriassecret.com.
Which bikini is your favorite today?
CC is partial to this hearted one!
Happy Memorial Day, darlings!
xoxox,
CC